There are three Es in "Keeley"
But during our final visit, he was more reflective. Isn’t everybody, he said, seeking the same thing in life? Aren’t we all looking for contentment? He was never happy in his youth—not in high school, not with a job, not being around other people. Then he discovered his camp in the woods. “I found a place where I was content,” he said. His own perfect spot. The only place in the world he felt at peace.
The Strange & Curious Tale of the Last True HermitBy Michael Finkel, GQ

The thing is, though, most of us in this business are beholden to others. Covering sports nowadays is often a second-by-second chase for information that was once considered uninteresting or irrelevant - or that once wouldn’t have been considered information at all.

To get those transactional tidbits, to find out who made the practice squad or who signed that 10-day contract, to get “a source” to say what might happen if a particular player happened to be traded, we develop relationships and grant anonymity and conveniently ignore that the source might have an agenda or might earn his paycheck from the same company that owns our all-sports network or newspaper or website, and that we might be nothing more than a mouthpiece.

"In new media world, Rice video bound to end up on TMZ,”By Mike Sielski, Philadelphia Inquirer 
Many online commenters said that he was a good player and a good guy and that he shouldn’t be judged by one mistake. But, of course, that’s what the criminal-justice system does all the time.
"Instant Replay," by Margaret Talbot, The New Yorker

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1982: Pittsburgh’s first feminist bar, bistro and cabaret

Pittsburgh residents have always had a thirst for ale, good coffee and strong spirits.

James O’Hara, one of the city’s early settlers, was a successful businessman and real estate investor who, by 1803, was operating the Point Brewery on land now occupied by Point State Park.

In 1969, gay men and lesbians rioted outside the Stonewall inn in New York’s Greenwich Village. The women’s rights movement was in full flower and by the spring of 1975, local feminists wanted a place where women’s art could be seen and their voices heard.

So, they organized the Wild Sisters Coffeehouse to provide a performance venue that would showcase women artists, poets and musicians. Among the 15 founders were Dana Ventriglia, a trained carpenter, local lawyer Ann Begler and Felice Newman, then a University of Pittsburgh student and published poet. The coffeehouses were staged in various locations, including the Chatham College Chapel.

By July of 1982, the dedicated, determined women had raised nearly $55,000, enough to buy a liquor license and a South Side building located at 2700 Jane Street. The women invested lots of sweat equity by painting, sanding and plastering their new property.  Interior designer Janice Lott did the floor plan for the new establishment. Wild Sisters,  the first feminist bar, cabaret and restaurant in Pittsburgh, opened in 1982 .

Mary Pat Donegan, a psychotherapist, was president.

"When we first started, we put one ad in the newspapers — ‘Women Artists Wanted’ — and since that time we’ve been flooded by requests," Ms. Donegan told the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette in a 1982 interview.

Wild Sisters welcomed women and men. Patrons could get a drink, a bowl of soup, a piece of quiche or a sandwich and listen to music. The venue opened long before the letters LGBT entered the daily vernacular of American language.

John G. Craig Jr., the late editor of the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette, mentioned Wild Sisters in a column he wrote on July 27, 1985.

He called it “a South Side bistro with a sympathy for a liberated clientele.”

Wild Sisters closed in 1985 and became Bloomer’s, a bar, music venue and space for women’s art.  Next, the building hosted two Italian restaurants and a Mexican taqueria. Today, it is home to the Hot Metal Bridge Faith Community.

— Marylynne Pitz

Top picture: Interior of Wild Sisters, a restaurant and bar for women located on the South Side at 27th and Jane streets. (Post-Gazette photo)

Domenica Ruta, author of the memoir “With or Without You,” seconded that discomfort. Ms. Ruta, who puts her phone on “do not disturb” mode while she is writing (she missed an initial call to interview her because of this function), said she was “becoming more and more inarticulate about my emotional state” in speech.

“I can write a hell of an email, where it’s raw and gritty and disgusting and beautiful at times,” she said. “But then to actually speak with my voice and the wind inside of me going through the reeds of my throat, I’ll feel like I’m choking to death.” (Ms. Ruta’s definition of inarticulacy apparently excludes off-the-cuff elaborate metaphors.)

Call waiting…and waiting,” By Teddy Wane, New York Times 

A 21st-century love story

Meanwhile, many of his East Coast friends, who chased after money and good jobs, certainly achieved success, but felt otherwise empty and alone. As Dreher was writing his book, one told him, “Everything I’ve done has been for career advancement … And we have done well. But we are alone in the world.” He added: “Almost everybody we know is like that.”
"Relationships are more important than ambition," by Emily Esfahani Smith, The Atlantic
http://m.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2013/04/relationships-are-more-important-than-ambition/275025/
Sociologists in general believe that when society robs people of self-control, individual dignity, or a connection to something larger than themselves, suicide rates rise.

"The Sunday shows were filled with politicians, mainly Democrats like Senator Dianne Feinstein of California, demanding stronger gun control while supporters of gun rights were noticeably absent. David Gregory, the moderator of “Meet the Press,” said his show invited 31 senators who support gun rights to appear on Sunday. “We had no takers,” he said.

The National Rifle Association’s headquarters was closed Sunday and a spokesman could not be reached. A spokesman for Senator Mitch McConnell of Kentucky, the Republican minority leader, said he had no comment, while Representative Eric Cantor, the Republican House majority leader, could not be reached.”

Cowards.

'These tragedies must end,' Obama Says,” by Mark Landler and Peter Baker, The New York Times
"I’ve never heard of Cincinnati. Is it near Bradley University?"

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What? No.